by Edie Melson @EdieMelson

It’s easy to get discouraged in the writing industry. It’s a tough business, and as they say on Project runway, “One day you’re in, and one day you’re out.”

So what’s a writer to do?

1. We always have a choice, we can get stronger through adversity or defeated by it. This is true in life, and also in publishing.

2. Failure is an option, but it’s not as bad as you think. Some of my most valuable lessons have come through repeated failure. The key is to
   not let failure stop you.

3. Publishing is subjective business. What one editor loves, another hates. Don’t let one or two opinions stop you in your tracks.

4. It’s important to cultivate a positive attitude. Having a positive outlook doesn’t mean you ignore the negative, you just don’t let it
   defeat you.

5. The best opportunities are often disguised as problems.

6. Success has nothing to do with perfection. It’s important to strive to be the best we can be. But perfection is out of reach. Don’t let a
   lack of it hold you back.

7. Every writer needs a tribe. We need others traveling a similar path to encourage us and hold us accountable.

8. Every writer’s journey is different. Although we need companions, we have to remember our path is unique. Comparing your
   opportunities and milestones are not a productive use of your time.

9. Courage isn’t the absence of fear. We all are afraid of things—failure, the blank page, not living up to expectations. But the
   courageous writer continues on in spite of fear.

10. Publishing is five percent talent and ninety-five percent perseverance. The tide will turn. It may seem like your turn with success with
    never come, but that’s only true if you quit.

11. The harder the climb, the better view. When we work for something, we value it more.

12. Publishing is a process, not a destination. We look at others ahead of us and feel like they’ve arrived. Truthfully, no one has ever
    arrived.

13. It takes as long as it takes. There are so many things that go into the publishing equation. The key is to not rush the process.

14. In this business, a lot of success does come from who you know. Networking is vital. Learn the lesson early and you’ll find the path
    easier.

15. You are stronger than you think. So often we underestimate ourselves. Stop and look back at what you’ve already accomplished and give
    yourself a pat on the back.

16. Every writer struggles with insecurity. It doesn’t matter if we’ve never published a book or published fifty. The blank page remains an
    enemy to be vanquished.

17. Nothing lasts forever, not even the writing slumps.

18. Flexibility is key. We can make plans, but just because things don’t turn out the way we hope is no excuse to give up.

19. Finally,remember these words,A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord determines his steps. Proverbs 16:9

These are the things I try to remember when publishing gets tough. What would you add
to the list? Be sure to leave your thoughts in the comments section below.Edie Melson is a woman of faith with ink-stained fingers observing life through the lens of her camera. No matter whether she’s talking to writers, entrepreneurs, or readers, her first advice is always “Find your voice, live your story.” As an author, blogger, and speaker she’s encouraged and challenged audiences across the country and around the world. Her numerous books reflect her passion to help others develop the strength of their God-given gifts and apply them to their lives. Connect with her on her website, through Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.