by Edie Melson @EdieMelson
The title of this post may seem too obvious to merit mention, but I would beg you to stick with me. Life these days is incredibly busy. We’re subdividing our time into smaller and smaller portions, leaving us with just more details to keep track of.
Writing can easily fall between the cracks.
But I would propose that worked-in-between-the-insanity isn’t where our writing belongs. We have been given a gift and entrusted with a calling. I’ve come to believe it’s poor stewardship on my part to ignore that. So I’ve decided to begin the practice of writing with intentional consistency.
But all around, no matter my good intentions, life continues to loom and intrude.
So how am I putting intentional consistency into practice?
- I’ve determined my most creative hours of the day and blocked them off on my calendar. For me it’s the morning—anytime before noon. Truthfully, I’m not able to spend every single morning writing, but with the time blocked off, it makes me weigh other opportunities differently.
- I set weekly goals.I prefer weekly over daily goals because they’re easier to meet. If I miss a day for some reason, I still have the rest of the week to meet the expectations I’ve set. Sometimes I structure my goals around word count, but not always. Right now I’m working on a series of devotions, so I have a set number I want to finish editing each week.
- I write regularly.No, I don’t always write something every day. I believe writers should have a Sabbath rest. But I write when I don’t feel like it, as well as when I feel like it. Hear my heart on this. We are all busy. We all have important things that need doing. But if we’re going to call ourselves writers then writing MUST be one of those things. We can’t just talk about writing, critique other writers, or plan to write when life slows down. If we choose that attitude then we’re no better than the rich man in Luke 12 who was planning to build bigger barns. We are not promised tomorrow and we’ve got to quit squandering today.
- I respect my calling.This is an attitude change for me. Through prayer and study, I’ve determined that God expects me to be obedient. I know, not a huge revelation, but just wait. That obedience isn’t supposed to only be in regard to the hard or the difficult things in my life. Obedience is foundational to everything. You see, I love writing and because it’s fun, I had developed the idea that it wasn’t important. And by the way, this has nothing to do with whether or not I’m making money with my writing. It has to do with obedience only.
- I’m willing to let God set my priorities, even when it means saying no.I’m doing my best to model my life on Jesus. As I’ve studied His life, I’ve realized that He was not constrained by someone else’s agenda—even when it was urgent. He walked away from crowds who needed healing, those who were hurting, even disciples who were confused. Only God set His priorities. Everywhere around us are ministries that need workers, children who need babysitting, and loved ones who need help. I am not God. I cannot be everywhere at once. God is the only one who can make sense of all the needs surrounding me. When He says no, I go with it. When He says write, I sit down and write.
- I’ve enlisted a team.Actually, I have a couple of them. I have a prayer team who pray specifically for me and my writing ministry. I also have a group of writers that I meet with regularly. Both groups hold me accountable and help me remember my priorities. They also give me the perspective I need to make wise choices.
- I now take time off.I’ve tried to work every waking hour I can, and it just doesn’t work. I’m not capable of sustaining that time of schedule. It makes me cranky, tired, and generally difficult to live with. It’s also NOT fair to my family and friends. Relationships do matter. When my life is out of balance, my calling isn’t the only thing that suffers.
- I nurture my relationship with God.This is foundational and without it, numbers 1 through 7 are meaningless. I make regular times of prayer and study a priority. I’ve discovered—the hard way—that the crazier life gets, the more time I need with God.
None of these eight things is earth shattering, in fact they’re fairly obvious unless we’re applying them to ourselves. For me though, they required a dramatic shift in thinking and acting. I’d love for you to share your thoughts on intentional consistency in your writing life. Be sure to share your comments in the section below.
Edie Melson is the author of numerous books, as well as a freelance writer and editor. Her blog, The Write Conversation, reaches thousands each month and has been named as one of Writer’s Digest 101 Best Websites for Writers. She’s the Director of the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference and vice president of the Advanced Writers and Speakers Association (AWSA). She’s also the Social Media Director for Southern Writers Magazine and the contributor to www.Just18Summers.com and www.PuttingOnTheNew.com. Connect with her on Twitter and Facebook.
The Conversation
Edie, thank you for the reminder. This summer I’ll work a few hours in the morning and a few in the evening so I can spend the day with my son. I worked too much last summer and my son verbalized his concern. God bless you as you serve Him.
“I respect my calling.” I so needed to hear this. Writing is fun. I enjoy it. And since the effects of my words aren’t always tangible, sometimes I try to weigh it against other things where the results of my efforts would be tangible. Our churches have a never ending list of activities that offer immediately visible results for our efforts, and well-meaning people with strong opinions on what you should be doing. This is a good reminder…”When He says write, I write.” Thank you Edie!
Thank you Edie. All the things you mentioned I tell myself but it helps to hear someone else speak them in confirmation.
Great reminder, Edie. Everything you said reminded me of why I am a writer and who I am writing for. Life definitely gets in the way, and sometimes we have to stop and handle life’s problems, but we also need to set priorities and listen for God’s voice telling us when it’s time to say no to other things and get about the Master’s business. Thank you for reminding me.
Edie, your emphasis on honoring the call really spoke to me. I need to stop calling myself “a beginning writer” and write more consistently. Saying no and letting God set the priorities are important reminders. Thank you for candidly sharing from your experience.
Your reminder to say no as needed and let God set priorities really spoke to me. I want to honor the call more intentionally. Thank you for sharing from your experience as a Christ follower and writer.
Edie, I love this post. We have such a unique calling that is hard to fulfill. Thank you for helping us to keep our eyes on Jesus and try to emulate him in this crazy life.