by Melissa Henderson @mimionlife
“Can you attend?” “You can sell your books.” “Are you available for that date and time?” These comments are sometimes heard or read by authors. Invitations to parties, special gatherings, store sales, and more, are opportunities for writers to share their work, perhaps sell books, and shine the light of God. What happens if authors are apprehensive about participating?
A few months ago, I learned about a local event offering spots for folks to sell their products. I inquired about the details. Listed as a family-friendly gathering, I was happy to check my calendar and fill out the entry form. I checked to see if there were any familiar names already on the list of participants. Encouraging other vendors is important.
The next day, I received an email telling me I had been approved to participate. A list of other vendors was attached to the note. One other author who would be selling poetry books. I hoped to meet that person and exchange business cards.
Time passed and I continued to prepare for the day when my husband and I would load supplies in the car and head to another town for the event. Needed items include a table, a canopy, books, stickers, bookmarks, business cards, a business license, etc. I had purchased a bright orange tablecloth that fit the autumn motif. I was ready for fun.
I checked the coordinator’s website every few days. The email suggested vendors check for any new details. Everything was good until the day I looked at the new advertisement listing sponsors. There were several listed, but one caught my eye and made me gasp. The sponsor was not family-friendly. That business was “adults only”. I was shocked. What should I do?
First, I prayed for God to guide my decision about attending or declining the invitation. I consulted trusted clergy, family, and friends. God guided me to question my reason for wanting to go. Was earning money my first goal? Or was sharing the light of God my main reason for being there? Would I make a difference in a crowd that might not be open to hearing about God?
The answer came. I went to the event. My husband, son, and another vendor set up the canopy and table. I arranged my supplies and prepared to sell books and share about God through my words and actions. I continued to pray for wisdom and guidance from God.
The day was a success. Many children and parents visited my table. Book sales were wonderful. I shared about “Licky the Lizard” and how we don’t have to be afraid of the lizards because God made lizards and He made us, too. I shared about God making alligators and if children see a gator, tell an adult. (We have lots of gators here in the Lowcountry of SC)
The day ended and we packed up to go home. I thanked God for His protection over anything that might have prevented His Word from being shared. I had been apprehensive because of one of the sponsors. I never saw that business or any of their products.
I believe God led me to make the best decision. Fear and doubt didn’t win. I prayed and His love was shared with folks of all ages.
Have you ever been worried or unsure about an event? How did you handle the situation?
Blessings,
Melissa Henderson
The Conversation
You didn’t hide your light! Yay! I’ve never attended a vendor event that had sponsors, but at one outside event where I had a table put me next to two gay women who were doing massage and tarot card readings. Now THAT was uncomfortable. But I was friendly, sold a few books and other craft items, and prayed for those women and the people who came to their tent ALL DAY.
No idea what God did with that, and I’m okay not knowing.
I’m glad the event turned out so well! I’d have the same struggle as you did with the not-family-friendly sponsor. We can only pray about each case, as you did, as it comes up. I’m glad that sponsor and its products were not in your vicinity.