by Edie Melson @EdieMelson
Publishing is a tough business. It’s almost impossible to write anything for public consumption without feeling like you’re throwing your heart into the lion’s den. And I don’t know about you, but I give these negative comments a lot more credibility than the positive ones. The good ones I tend to disregard with the thought that the person commenting was, “just being nice.”
With the mind-set of living on past rejections it’s possible to shrivel up and die, at least as a writer. Feeding ourselves on what’s already gone forces us to a standstill. And it comes with an entire travel trailer full of baggage. It’s easy to become overwhelmed with doubt, insecurity and an almost overwhelming urge to give up.
Instead, make the decision with me today, RIGHT NOW, to begin to live in the future, on the promises God has given you. If you’re writing now, you know what I mean. You’ve heard that still, small voice call your name. You’ve gotten that confirmation you’ve asked for. Now it’s time to move forward, believing God truly is big enough to make it happen. He doesn’t call us out, fully formed and ready. He calls us out when we’re weak—ready for Him to equip us.
Edie Melson—author, blogger, speaker—has written numerous books, including her most recent, While My Child is Away. She’s also the military family blogger at Guideposts.org. Her popular blog, The Write Conversation, reaches thousands each month. She’s the director of the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference and a member of the Advanced Writers and Speakers Association. She’s the the Social Media Director for Southern Writers Magazine, Social Media Mentor at My Book Therapy, and the Senior Editor for NovelRocket.com.
The Conversation
This is twice in the past few days I’ve heard this same general message. I think I have it. Thanks for the confirmation.
This message is so true. One other thing to think about. If we get down because of rejections, it’s saying we believe we’re the ones in control of our work, not God. We speculate on what we did wrong, why someone didn’t want or like our work, maybe even feel some animosity toward the one doing the rejection. The Master provides the creativity and inspiration. We come to our writing place faithfully and listen for His guidance. Then He sends it into the world in as big or small a way as He sees fit.
Linda Sawyer