The Bully Brothers Of The Writing World

by Larry Leech @LarryJLeechII

Disappointment and Discouragement.

Oh, how they love to bother and belittle us. Batter and bruise us.

The “D” brothers are henchmen of the enemy. If we are not careful, they can overwhelm us with invasive thoughts.

“That’s a stupid idea.”

“No one will read this.

“Ha, you couldn’t have come up with a better verb than that.”

“You’re a horrible writer.”

“If readers knew what a terrible person you have been, they’d want nothing to do with you.”

Surely, we have heard those sweet lovelies, or something similar? Maybe for weeks on end, day after day after day after day. Because they can be relentless. Take us off our game. Frustrate us. Disappoint us. Discourage us. Maybe to the point that we throw in the towel.

But we can’t. No matter what the “D” brothers throw at us, whisper at us, we shouldn’t quit. We can’t quit.

We can’t be like Eyeore (no offense to Disney fans) and walk around with our head down and mumbling. Yes, in this writing gig, no matter how difficult it may be, we will experience disappointment and discouragement. We do in life, right? So why should we be exempt in our writing? Especially when we write to glorify God.

Putting the “D” brothers in their place can be exhausting because they can be relentless. When we dwell on their words, we push what we should be doing out of the forefront of our mind. We focus on them and if we do that long enough, we will ultimately push God out of being part of our writing process.

Remember, we have a big God. Take the club away from the enemy and give it to God. Give Him the attention. When we bring Him back to the forefront on our mind, the “D” will slide off our shoulder and leave us alone. At least for a little while.

Of course, they will be back. So be ready. But don’t give in and don’t believe a word the “D” brothers say. They are spirits of the ultimate liar. Keep that in mind the next time they show up.

 

Writing coach of award-winning novelists, Larry J. Leech II has spent nearly 40 years working with words. After a 23-year journalism career that began in 1981, Larry moved into freelance writing and editing in 2004. He has ghostwritten nearly 30 books and edited more than 250 manuscripts. Larry teaches at numerous conferences nationwide and can be found online on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, and his website, www.larryleech.com.

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  1. Pam Halter says:

    Excellent advice, Larry! In my online group, The Scribbling Women, we call the bully a BOHO (big old hairy obstacle,) and he or she does the same thing as the Bully Brothers.

    We will deal with our BOHO as long as we are writing. The difference for Christian writers is that we have the Lord as our help, and while the BOHO still rears up, its power is taken away.

    We do have to keep going. We don’t know how close we are for that special manuscript to get picked up. And it never will if we quit.

  2. Melissa Henderson says:

    Amen. Thank you Larry. You always have the best advice and suggestions. I appreciate you.